Top Tips for Surviving the School Holidays with Little Ones

Because it doesn’t have to be stressful or expensive…

The school holidays can feel a bit overwhelming, especially if you’ve got little ones at home and you’re trying to keep everyone happy, entertained and (somewhat) sane! But take a deep breath - it is possible to enjoy the break without burning out, breaking the bank or packing every second with activities.

Here are my top tips for surviving (and maybe even enjoying!) the school holidays with toddlers and young children in tow:

1. Keep calm - and keep it simple

Not every day needs to be jam-packed. A walk to the park, a wander in the local woods or just a scooter ride down the street can work wonders for everyone’s mood.

2. Organise some playdates

You don’t need to be their constant source of entertainment. Pairing up with another family gives the kids someone new to play with and gives you a bit of company too (or even a sneaky hot brew!).

3. Head indoors when the sun’s out

When the weather’s nice, soft play centres, museums and indoor play cafes can be blissfully quiet. You’ll often find fewer queues and more space to play.

4. Snacks. Snacks. And more snacks.

It’s like they’re always starving during the holidays - so keeping a stash of easy on-the-go snacks on hand can save you from meltdowns (theirs and yours).

5. Don’t plan every second

Downtime is actually really important. Kids need time to be bored - it sparks their imagination, encourages creativity and helps them learn to self-regulate.

6. Be kind to yourself

If you’re feeling touched out or overwhelmed, it’s okay to take a minute. Pop the telly on, hand them a snack and sit down with a brew. You matter too.

7. Make use of free local activities

Libraries, community centres, churches and local charities often run low-cost or free sessions that can keep children occupied for a bit.

8. Create a loose routine

Having a gentle rhythm to your day (again, it doesn't need to be strictly planned down to each second), like outdoor time in the morning and then quiet time after lunch, can help everyone feel more settled.

9. Let go of the guilt

Screens are allowed. Cereal for tea is fine. Washing can wait. You're not aiming to be perfect, just do what works for you!

10. Get them involved in real life

Kids love feeling helpful, so get them involved in small jobs like making lunch, hanging the washing up or watering the plants. It keeps them busy and helps you at the same time!

Most of all though, you’re doing an amazing job. Be gentle with yourself! They don’t need a perfect parent – just a present one.